[Excerpt from: OMW: Loving and Being Loved]
Before we go into the dynamics of the Personality and how Loving and Being Loved works within each Lifetime, we will point out the general themes for each Role and how that pursuit of Loving and Being Loved shows up over lifetimes.
Every Role has its blind spot to love, and when that blind spot finds light, that Role usually experiences a profound exposure to Love.
The SCHOLAR, more than any other Role, tends to require you to LOVE THEM ANYWAY, as a means to bring light to their blind spot.
Scholars, of all Roles, have the hardest time understanding and experiencing Love, and therefore can be quite obtuse to these matters.
Your Love must "make sense" to them before they can experience it, and no matter what you do, say, or are can alter the process of the Scholar needing to find the equation that fits to make that sense.
The more data you can provide, the better, which means this Role more than most needs to be pushed into Love, led with a strong hand and heart.
SCHOLAR - needs to be Pushed to Love - defaulting to Appreciative Love
The Scholar's needs are extensions of Stubbornness, and this means in terms of Love that there is resistance to new input, new data, new meanings, etc. The Scholar, then, needs EXPERIENCE/Experiments to Love.