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    [Excerpt from OMW: You and Your Centers]

     

    MEntity:
    The EMOTIONAL CENTER has as its Basic Functions the regulation of your intimacy, empathy, and sensitivity. In its simplest description for this exchange, we can say that is how one navigates between MEANINGFUL and MEANINGLESS.

     

    This is everyone's way of infusing or extracting meaning from his or her path/experiences in life.

     

    It is directly linked to the MODE.

     

    No matter what your Mode, in terms of Axis, it is your EMOTIONS that create or destroy your sense of meaning from your experiences.

     

    One cannot fulfill any range of significance in intimacy, sensitivity, without having infused or extracted Meaning.

     

    One cannot implement the Mode in any healthy way without evolving one's range of INSPIRATION.

     

    The more one limits his or her sense of Inspiration, the less-likely one can relate to others, to see himself or herself in others, and more importantly, less-likely to recognize others in himself or herself.

     

    By "others," we speak of any creature, sentient or non-sentient.

     

    In Positive Health, this Center could be described as showing up as GIVING/GENEROUS.

     

    In Negative Health, it can show up as RESENTFUL.

     

    The means by which the Mode is fulfilled at its best is when approached from this state of Giving/Generosity.

     

    The trick here is that no lifetime can be experienced without some experience in giving, but when one begins to keep score, to stand in righteousness, to give when not fully capable of giving, then Resentment begins to step in.

     

    So the evolution of Giving is a matter of one's evolution of Meaning. 

     

    ... we will close on the Emotional Center by stating that the state of your relationships is a fair means of assessing where you are in terms of Health in the Emotional Center.


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      1) RÉSERVE — INSTINCTIF

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      5) POUVOIR — INTELLECTUEL

      6) PASSION — ÉMOTIONNEL SUPÉRIEUR

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      Axe de l’Inspiration : RÉSERVE/PASSION

      Axe de l’Expression : PRUDENCE/POUVOIR

      Axe de l’Action : PERSÉVÉRANCE/AGRESSIVITÉ

      Assimilation/Neutre : OBSERVATION

       
      Nous mettrons en évidence tout d’abord ce qui est attirant POUR un Mode, puis ce qui est attirant CHEZ un Mode, et enfin, un bref commentaire sur la dynamique d’interaction entre eux.

      Nous débuterons avec le Mode Réserve et il résonne avec le Centre Instinctif. Ceux d’entre vous qui sont en mode Réserve êtes attirés vers les « racines » d’un autre individu, vos vies passées partagées. Vous êtes plus disposés et plus susceptibles de vous fier aux associations « passées » ou de vous y référer pour vous identifier l’un à l’autre.

      Vous avez un accès quasi direct et inconscient à votre ÂME, d’où le choix de RÉSERVE. Vous êtes Retenu dans votre exposition de l’Essence, car vous ne révélez que ce qui est « nécessaire » à l’autre de « voir ». Puisque vous avez ce vaste endroit où puiser, il est logique que vous ne souhaitiez pas qu’un autre soit submergé, mais plutôt qu’il partage ce qui est pertinent.

      En Pôle Négatif, vous vous sentez dépassé vous-même, et inhibez votre exposition au point de quasi-invisibilité. Ceci peut conduire à une interaction de type pilote automatique avec les autres. En Pôle Positif, vous êtes non seulement Réservé, mais aussi très conscient de l’Autre. Le mode Réserve est alors le plus attiré par l’histoire d’un individu, dans cette vie ou une autre. Ce Mode, dans le contexte de notre système, « entre » en l’Autre par le CENTRAGE.

      Ce que les autres trouvent le plus attirant chez la Réserve, c’est sa capacité à donner un éclairage au chaos en Soi. Cela signifie simplement que lorsque vous trouvez le mode Réserve attirant, c’est probablement par désir de faire remonter à la surface une Sous-personnalité, une facette ou une mémoire historique spécifique pour l’explorer et/ou la guérir.

      Le mode Prudence est relié au Centre Actif Supérieur. Cela peut être une expérience des plus effrayantes pour la Personnalité que de se sentir « éparpillée » à travers toutes les choses ; par conséquent, vous exprimez délibérément des portions de vous-même, ou n’autorisez que des parties d’un autre individu dans votre espace. C’est le résultat d’avoir à surveiller votre potentiel de perte de soi.

      Lorsque vous vous connectez si facilement et « secrètement » à votre environnement, et ayant perdu le sens du soi, la Phobie en résulte. Ceci est très différent de ce qui se passe en mode Réserve. Alors que le mode Réserve concerne les « Facettes de l’Âme », la Prudence concerne les « Facettes du Soi ». La Prudence est donc surtout attirée par le sens de motivation d’une personne ; plus cela est complet, plus vous êtes attrayant. Dans le contexte de notre système, ce Mode « entre » en l’Autre par le BUT.

      Le mode Prudence est potentiellement le plus sexuel dans notre sens du terme : « se déplacer à l’unisson avec autre chose que soi ». Bien sûr, tous les êtres ont le potentiel d’intimité sexuelle à la lumière de cette définition et avec n’importe quoi, mais la Prudence a un câblage intégré qui permet un sentiment d’intégration de leur identité avec un autre. Il est très attirant pour la Prudence de trouver une élimination sécuritaire des frontières.

      Lorsque la Prudence est dans la Phobie et a perdu le contact avec le soi, ou la capacité d’au moins surveiller l’expression, le Pôle Négatif de l’Actif Supérieur, le -Désir peut en résulter. Cela signifie simplement qu’ils sont plus susceptibles d’attirer ou d’être attirés par la ressemblance avec un individu, la familiarité. La plupart du temps, ce sera une correspondance de « vide » qui ne mènera nulle part, mais peut conduire à certaines percées.

      Ce qui est le plus attirant chez la Prudence, c’est donc la « Sécurité ». Nous entendons par là qu’une personne attirée par la Prudence recherche une forme de réconfort pour exprimer le soi TEL QU’IL EST, et la Prudence peut fournir ce forum. Ceci peut ne pas avoir de sens de prime abord puisque ce Mode est relié au But, mais le But n’est pas nécessairement à propos de l’action, mais plutôt un état. Ainsi, lorsque le soi fait confiance à la vie TELLE QU’ELLE EST, l’épanouissement peut se produire.

      Le Mode Persévérance est relié au Centre Actif et est probablement l’un des plus sexuels au sens traditionnel du terme, utilisant le corps et les tactiques physiques pour interagir. La Persévérance est concernée par la réalité physique et les ramifications des actions ; par conséquent, la confiance ou l’estime de soi est ce qu’elle trouve le plus attirant chez l’autre.

      La Persévérance en tant que Mode signifie que les actions « comptent », elle est donc particulièrement attirée si vos actions vous correspondent. Vous pouvez parler en toute confiance ou « parler gros, ou sexy », mais votre corps, comment il se tient, comment vous interagissez est plus révélateur pour ce Mode, même inconsciemment.

      Donc, encore une fois, la Persévérance est attirée vers vous à travers votre expression physique et vos manières. Ce n’est en aucun cas superficiel, mais simplement un moyen et un niveau de contact valides. Ce qui peut être difficile pour certains fragments, c’est la superficialité d’être limité UNIQUEMENT au niveau de la Réalité Physique. Cela conduit à une définition inchangée de la beauté et crée des jugements, conduisant ensuite aux Traits Négatifs Directeurs. Dans ce cas, ce Mode est le plus susceptible d’être frénétique dans sa vie sexuelle et de ne pas en être satisfait, de s’y livrer fiévreusement ou d’y renoncer complètement. Dans notre système, ce Mode « entre » en l’Autre par le Type Physique.

      Ce qui est le plus attirant chez la Persévérance est la même chose. Lorsque vous êtes attiré par la Persévérance, c’est peut-être parce que vous cherchez le reflet de vos propres forces. Lorsque l’attraction est négative, les résultats sont simplement physiques et peuvent conduire à des auto-jugements, perdant ainsi « le but recherché ».

      Le mode Observation, le plus populaire et le plus évident dans votre culture, est relié au Centre Émotionnel.

      La popularité de cet Attribut et l’influence de son imprégnation (en particulier du Pôle Négatif), quel que soit votre propre Mode, tendent à justifier de REGARDER passer « l’amour » ou d’examiner la vie plutôt que d’y participer. Cela prête de la -Sentimentalité (ou de l’attachement) à vos échanges, ce qui diffère de l’utilisation de votre propre Mode ou le Pôle Positif du Centre Émotionnel, la +Perception.

      Ceux qui sont en Mode Observation peuvent « voir » l’Autre plus clairement et souvent se contenteront de seulement vous regarder, de lire sur vous, d’entendre parler de vous ou de vous connaître indirectement. Ceci, en soi, n’est qu’une capacité limitée de l’Observation.

      Il peut sembler que le mode Observation, un Attribut Neutre, ne puisse pas être relié au Centre Émotionnel, mais ce biais est dû à une mauvaise compréhension des Émotions. Ce malentendu perpétue également la confusion de ceux en Observation. Les Émotions vous permettent de +Percevoir un autre, en contournant la logique et la physicalité. C’est l’un des outils les plus clairs et impartiaux dont vous disposez lorsque vous êtes dans le plan physique. On pense que les émotions sont inexactes, peu fiables ou peu pratiques, mais ce sont des Réactions qui passent généralement pour des émotions. Nous allons faire une digression un instant ici, mais nous vous assurons que c’est pertinent.

      Les Réactions sont des fonctions corporelles et sont alimentées par l’Intellect. Les Réactions sont basées sur des divergences intellectuelles de comportement ou d’événements, et non sur des émotions. Même les larmes, par exemple, sont la réaction biologique à la VÉRITÉ, un sous-produit Intellectuel. Toutes les larmes renvoient à quelque chose qui a été réalisée comme VRAI, même si c’est une douleur physique. Les larmes sont souvent reliées aux émotions, sinon exclusivement, mais il s’agit d’un événement centré sur l’Intellectuel. Les émotions, en ce qui concerne le Mode Observation, concernent la résonance. Par conséquent, ce qui est le plus attirant pour celui en Observation est son niveau de Résonance avec vous. Dans notre système, ce Mode « entre » en l’Autre par le Mode de l’Autre.

      Ce qui est le plus attirant chez le Mode Observation, c’est l’occasion d’être VU. Lorsque vous recherchez une personne en Observation, c’est à la lumière du choix d’être « validé ». Lorsqu’elle est recherchée négativement, c’est simplement pour « amener » cette personne à voir comment vous SOUHAITEZ être, et non pas comment vous ÊTES.

      Le Mode Pouvoir se présente à travers l’Intellect et la communication. Lorsque le Mode Pouvoir cherche, il est attiré par vos croyances personnellement validées, vos philosophies et vos points de vue.

      Lorsque le Pouvoir n’est pas sûr de ses croyances, il cherche à construire un faux système de pensées en -Raisonnant et en -Opprimant vos propres croyances. Il peut alors être attiré par ceux qui ont de fausses croyances, de grandes insécurités ou des perceptions indéfinies de la vie. Lorsqu’il est sécurisé et complet dans ses convictions et sa communication, le Pouvoir apporte +Autorité et +Perspicacité aux échanges. Le Mode Pouvoir, dans notre système, « entre » en l’Autre par l’Attitude.

      Ce qui est le plus attirant chez le Pouvoir est le sentiment de consolidation des vérités ou des idées. Lorsque vous recherchez une personne en mode Pouvoir, c’est en lieu de la reconnaissance de votre « place » dans votre environnement mental et du besoin de confirmation, quel que soit l’Âge de l’Âme. Quel que soit l’Âge de votre Âme, si vous êtes attiré par une Âme de Bébé en Pouvoir, ce sera pour la +Perspicacité ou +l’Autorité dans la compréhension de votre « place » dans la structure sociale. Une Âme Mature en Pouvoir vous fournira le contexte de « à quoi servent les émotions », bien sûr, et une Vieille Âme pourrait vous fournir un échange sur vous et « l’ordre des choses ».
       

      Le mode Passion résonne avec le Centre Émotionnel Supérieur et a le plus grand penchant à vouloir simplement « aimer » tout le monde.

      La Passion reconnaît les leçons inhérentes obtenues par la connaissance ou l’échange avec autrui et y trouve non seulement plus d’amour pour soi, mais aussi la +Réalisation de soi à travers l’Autre. Elle est surtout attirée par la vie psychique d’un autre et a tendance à attirer les personnes les plus bizarres et inhabituelles pour l’intimité. Ceux qui n’expérimenteraient normalement PAS l’intimité avec un autre Mode trouveront des essais presque inconditionnels avec ce Mode. Le Mode Passion est le plus intense concernant les questions d’intimité, car il a une mentalité de « sans retenue ». Ceci peut être inconfortable ou exaltant pour la Personnalité.

      Ce qui attire le plus la Passion, c’est le manque de Temps/Espace comme référence dans vos échanges.

      Dans notre système, la Passion « entre » en l’Autre à travers l’Âge de l’Âme, car cela vous met en contact avec un champ d’énergie en dehors du Temps/Espace. Le Mode Passion peut avoir tendance à être lié aux expériences d’interaction plus que les autres Modes, conduisant à -l’identification ou à la perte de toutes les frontières. Vous n’êtes plus seulement une personne pour le mode Passion, mais un représentant de la personne en Passion. VOS actions, acceptations, refus, etc. peuvent être utilisés comme référence pour le propre sens de l’Âme de la personne en Passion.

      Ceci concerne également le Pôle Négatif du Centre Émotionnel Supérieur, -l’Intuition, dans lequel une connexion a été établie avec un individu, mais uniquement à partir d’une référence spécifique, sans considérer l’entièreté. Ceci ressemble à la Prudence, nous le réalisons, mais c’est grandement différent.

      Ce qui est le plus attirant chez le mode Passion, c’est leur capacité d’être absorbé en tout ou de tout absorber en eux. Lorsqu’il cherche une personne en mode Passion, un individu est prêt à être PRÉSENT. Si cela est recherché à partir de la peur, c’est peut-être par un désir de « disparaître ».

      REMARQUE : La Prudence, la Réserve et la Persévérance concernent respectivement les Facettes de l’Âme, du Soi et du Corps, tandis que la Passion, le Pouvoir et l’Agression concernent la TOTALITÉ de l’Âme, du Soi et du Corps. L’Observation concerne les deux.

      Le Mode Agression se rapporte au Centre Intellectuel Supérieur puisque ce Mode traite des dynamiques de la pensée et de leur transformation en formes de pensées.
      Ce qui est le plus attirant pour l’Agression est la totalité de votre vie ; pas nécessairement vous en tant que personne, votre apparence, vos perceptions, votre être, mais ce qui en est DEVENU. Lorsque l’Agression ne peut pas trouver une vision de ce qu’elle est devenue ou de ce qu’elle deviendra, elle peut puiser dans votre chaos de direction et utiliser cette énergie pour la -Belligérance, vous suivant comme une ombre. 

      Nous avons mentionné précédemment que ce Mode concernait la totalité du Corps (ou la physicalité). Ceci fait référence à vos résultats ou à votre impact en tant que véhicule, en utilisant ultimement le corps, bien sûr. Ce Mode, alors, dans notre système, « entre » en l’Autre par le Rôle.

      Ce qui est le plus attirant chez l’Agression est sa capacité innée à émettre la Vérité aux trois niveaux : Personnel, Public et Universel. Un simple geste de la main peut donner vie à de nombreuses vérités. Il ne s’agit pas toujours de la vérité cognitive ou globale, mais de la vérité Causale. Le mouvement d’une main, le balayage d’un geste, la levée d’un sourcil : tout allume quelque chose. Quand l’Agression est recherchée négativement, c’est pour réprimander, ou corriger.

      Nous n’avons fait qu’effleurer la surface de chacun de ces Modes et leur actualité, mais cela peut suffire à déclencher une partie de vos propres validations et découvertes.

      Il y aura des périodes, en fonction de votre style de vie ou de votre agenda, où vous vous « reposerez » dans le Mode qui est sur le même axe que le vôtre. Pour l’Observation, bien sûr, vous aurez des Modes vers lesquels vous « glisserez » habituellement pour votre « repos ».

      Quand vous êtes dans le Mode sur le même axe que le vôtre, vous êtes « indisponible » pour le contact. Par exemple, si vous êtes naturellement en Mode Passion, mais que vous vous « reposez » en Réserve, vous êtes « hors limites » pour le moment et êtes plus susceptible de vous occuper de problèmes d’intimité et d’auto-karma au niveau interne. Donc, si vous vous trouvez dans un état d’isolement ou de solitude, vérifiez le Pôle Positif du Mode dans lequel vous vous reposez, initiez ces qualités et vous reviendrez « automatiquement » à votre propre Mode. Ce retour sera maintenu UNIQUEMENT si vous le souhaitez ou le maintenez consciemment, sinon vous reviendrez au Mode le plus approprié à votre état actuel.

      Alors, que pouvez-vous faire avec toutes ces informations ?

      Premièrement, comprendre votre Mode en termes de ce que vous pourriez « naturellement » rechercher comme une « entrée » aux autres, peut vous aider à comprendre ce que vous « regardez/recherchez » dans un autre. Comprendre les différents Modes et ce que cela pourrait signifier en termes de ce que vous trouvez attirant chez un autre peut vous aider à comprendre ce que vous cherchez à accomplir en général. De plus, vous pouvez regarder vos partenaires actuels et voir ce que chacun de vous stimule « naturellement » chez l’autre par la façon dont vos modes « entrent » en chacun des Attributs de l’autre. Cela s’apparente à pincer une certaine corde de piano ou de guitare : une note est tirée de vous par le Mode d’une autre personne. Comprendre vos réactions ou réponses à un partenaire ou à un proche peut être très révélateur.
       

      Et, finalement, c’est du Bon Travail de déterminer si vous cherchez à partir de vos BESOINS (le Pôle Négatif de l’intimité), auquel cas, c’est l’intimité avec SOI qui vous manque. Si la recherche d’un partenaire apporte de l’anxiété, de la pression, de l’auto-jugement, etc., vous ne cherchez pas un partenaire ; vous vous cherchez.

       

      MODE

      PÔLE NÉGATIF

      PÔLE POSITIF

      RÉSONNE AVEC LE

      ATTIRÉ PAR LE

      Réserve

      Inhibition

      Retenue

      Centre Instinctif

      Centrage

      Prudence

      Phobie

      Délibération

      Centre Actif Supérieur

      But

      Persévérance

      Immuabilité

      Persistance

      Centre Actif

      Mode

      Observation

      Surveillance

      Clarté

      Centre Émotionnel

      Mode

      Pouvoir

      Oppression

      Autorité

      Centre Intellectuel

      Attitude

      Passion

      Identification

      Auto-actualisation

      Centre Émotionnel Supérieur

      Âge de l’Âme

      Agressivité

      Belligérance

      Dynamisme

      Centre Intellectuel Supérieur

      Rôle

       


       
    • DanielaS
      By DanielaS
      Michael Speaks Live Online
      "Seven Emotions"
      March 23, 2014
      (3 Hour Session)
      Channel: Troy Tolley
       
      [MEntity]
      We understand the topic of focus is that of the Emotions.
       
      First, as you explore the concept of Emotions, we will point out that "feelings" and Emotions are not, technically, the same things. They are so interconnected that they are often considered the same thing, but for the sake of the topic today, it will be helpful to understand that the "feeling" aspect is a bodily reaction/response to the energy that is Emotion.
       
      Emotions are more like a surge of energy, a kind of electricity, if you will, and your processing of that is what you call "feelings."
       
      All Emotions originate from the Emotional Center.
       
      These are then distributed, or processed, through the Parts of that Center, which funnels the energy into the other Centers relative to the Part.
       
      So, for example, if an Emotion is a Moving Part Emotion, it still originates from the Emotional Center, is processed by the Moving Part, and directed toward the Moving Center then.
       
      We will return to this circuitry a bit later.
       
      All Emotions Are Personal -- Only About Oneself
       
      Because all Emotions are of the Emotional Center, this means they are always related to ORDINAL INSPIRATION. This means that all Emotions are personal, and they are either a result of PROJECTION or REFLECTION.
       
      Emotions are personal (ordinal) in that they only ever tell you about YOU.
       
      Emotions never tell you anything about anyone other than yourself. Ever.
       
      It is an information circuitry that is entirely unique to you, about you, and is all about your collection of experiences, organized in layers of time, and that are then used to measure against your current experiences. All of this is a form of navigation.
       
      This is all true whether one is Emotionally-Centered, or not.
       
      When one is Emotionally-Centered, it simply means this form of navigation is relied upon far more than the other two forms (Intellectual and Moving).
       
      All fragments will have all three forms inherent to the incarnation, of course
       
      No matter how provoked, your Emotions are informing you about you; not the other person or even the event.
       
      When we say that they are "informing you about you, we mean that they are sifting through your collection of experiences over time and comparing the current experience to a past one for reference. If you have a painful experience in your records, a current experience might trigger that painful association and the current experience will be regarded as painful, even if it may not be painful.
       
      Because Emotions are Inspirational, they are LOADED with POTENTIAL. They are not reality. They only speak to the potential of a reality. So, for instance, this reference to a painful experience from the past is only meant to suggest that the current experience MIGHT BE painful, too. It is not meant to tell you that your current experience IS painful.
       
      And therein lies the difference between PROJECTION and REFLECTION.
       
      Projection is a reactionary processing of Emotions that presume that what is "felt" is the conclusive truth. If you feel it, it must be true. That is that. This is Projection.
       
      This is why we continue to remind our students that Emotions are not the truth.
       
      In a sense, Emotions are ALWAYS about the PAST.
       
      So the truth that you "feel" is about the past, not the present or the future.
       
      This is not a bad thing or a good thing, it is simply how Emotion functions.
       
      Even the best of how you feel is a product of the past.
       
      For example: you may find that the watching of the setting Sun is one that brings joy. But this is because it is not your first sunset. First sunsets for many fragments (in those early lifetimes) was terrifying. The world was plunged into darkness and new creatures emerged in that darkness, and nothing was ever the same again. Until the morning, of course. But then it would happen again. This was terrifying.
       
      Eventually, enough experience with sunsets brings Trust, and it is known that the Sun has not died, and it will rise again in the morning.
       
      To be clear, this Trust still cannot speak to the TRUTH. It can only speak to experience. MORE THAN LIKELY the sun will rise, and MORE THAN LIKELY the sun has not died, but there may very well come a night that never ends.
       
      As you can see, Trust then becomes an important Emotion for navigating because one cannot constantly fight and fear a sunset.
       
      If there comes a day when the sun does not rise, you will deal with that. Until then, you live as if the sun will rise again, because you Trust that it will, and you Trust that it will because you have enough experience to do so.
       
      This is no different in processing when it comes to relationships.
       
      It is fair to be wary of new relationships if one has experienced pain in one or more. Your Emotions are telling you to be careful, and that another round of relating COULD result in another round of pain. But, remember, Emotions are not the truth. They are only referencing your experience, and your experience, while your own, is not a constant. You lived in terror for years, afraid that the sun may not rise again. That fear and pain and terror was real. It is fair to be wary as the night falls again.
       
      But your fear, pain, and terror are not a constant, because you continue to gather experiences.
       
      And as your days are found to be filled over and over again, despite the terrors that the night will come, you begin to note this and grow from it, and face each day and night with Trust.
       
      The same is true of your relationships.
       
      The fear and pain and terror of your losses when a relationship ends or departs from expectations can make the next relationship seem a breeding ground for more terror, fear, and pain. But a new relationship is like a new day. IT WILL END. AND YOU WILL NOT.
       
      And just like the passing of days, you will find that relationships, like your days and nights, are uniquely filled with what you put into them, and are not defined by their beginning and "end."
       
      This is REFLECTION, then.
       
      PROJECTION is when you impose your past on an experience, relationship, or event. REFLECTION is when you learn from your past, but allow the greatest potential of the present or future.
       
      What we have shared, so far, is how Emotions function, how they are processed, what they are for, and what they mean.
       
      Though there many words to describe Emotions and how one feels, all Emotions can be traced back to one of seven basic Emotions, or as a combination of two or more of these basic Emotions.
       
      Those SEVEN BASIC EMOTIONS are:
       
      TRUST, DISGUST, ANTICIPATION, SADNESS, JOY, ANGER, SURPRISE.
       
      Trust is of the Instinctive Part.
      Anticipation is of the Higher Emotional Part.
      Joy is of the Higher Intellectual Part.
      Surprise is of the Higher Moving Part.
      Disgust is of the Emotional Part.
      Sadness is of the Intellectual Part.
      Anger is of the Moving Part.
       
      FEAR is not an Emotion, technically, anymore than Truth is or Love or Energy, in any technical sense.
       
      Many "emotions" that are referenced by other terms are combinations of the above, either in negative or in positive pole combinations.
       
      None of these Emotions are bad or good, but all can be experienced in beneficial or harmful ways.
       
      QUESTIONS
       
      Before we break down these Emotions into polarities, we will open the floor to any questions relative to what we have shared so far.
       
      [DianeHB] What IS Fear, if not an emotion?
       
      [MEntity]
      Fear is a "feeling," a secondary response or reaction to the processes of Emotions of Anger and Surprise.
       
      Fear, then, could be said to be the body's reaction of protection against negative experiences relative to Anger and Surprise.
       
      Keep in mind that the entire concept of Fear is one that is far more insidious and pervasive than this simplified version we speak of. We are speaking of Fear in terms of Emotions here, but we may speak of fear in larger terms in other discussions.
       
      But for the point of discussion regarding Emotion, Fear is often that bodily reaction to protections against all that is related to negative experiences of Anger and Surprise.
       
      In broader terms, it could be said that Fear is also the bodily response to all of these Emotions in their negative poles.
       
      [Juni] I am wondering about the difference between feelings/emotions and intuition. If feelings/emotions only ever tell you about oneself, how do you distinguish that from a "feeling" about another?
       
      [MEntity]
      Intuition is different from Emotions. Again, these are often presumed to be the same things, which is why many who use "intuition" are merely guided by a maze of emotions, and not insights.
       
      This is not a bad thing in the end, because when "intuition" is thought to be a process of navigating Emotionally, it can still be helpful, since Emotions always lead one back to the self. This can be just as important as guiding one outwardly.
       
      However, to more directly respond to your question, one's "feelings" about another person can still be useful, even if those feelings or Emotions are informing one about the self. It simply means that one has owned the feeling as one's own, and not as having originated from another person.
       
      If a person "makes you feel good," it is informing you as to how you feel about that person, but it is not necessarily how anyone else might feel about that person. And it only tells you how you feel about that person RIGHT NOW, not about how you will feel about that person in the future. All of this speaks to your past as a reference, too.
       
      If you meet someone and presume that your good feelings are the truth about that person, you have immediately cut yourself out of the picture as a source of those good feelings. This is often the case when "falling in love."
       
      Presuming that these Emotions and feelings are sourced by someone else means that there will likely come a day that the other is then blamed for less pleasant feelings.
       
      This becomes problematic for relating to someone because then the emphasis shifts away from how you contribute to your range of emotions and feelings, and the emphasis shifts toward how to get the other person to make you feel the way you had expected to feel.
       
      So there is no real differentiation here. Your feelings about a person are your own, and are not the truth about another person.
       
      There is a big difference between "I feel good" and "You make me feel good."
       
      Intuition, however, is another topic, and it is a synthesis of input from all of your senses so that comprehension can be gained.
       
      [ViP1]
      Hi Michael. I've read in psychology articles that insufficient contact or interaction (as an infant) with one's mother (or perhaps both parents) in the form of touch, and responses to facial and other cues, can inhibit peoples' abilities to recognize and describe their emotions (or perhaps, feelings?)
       
      And hence, leading to difficulties in dealing with them (emotions - or perhaps feelings, I'm not sure which based on your earlier distinction between them. Probably feelings.)
       
      Would you say that there is validity to this, and if so, if someone has had this experience in early life, how the processing circuitry is affected (and if possible, tips on how to rectify it, ie, recognize and process emotions effectively?)
       
      [MEntity]
      Any issues with care taking during the first 7 years can affect the Instinctive Part and, therefore, affect one's TRUST. Trust is reset in every lifetime, but how one is handled, treated, nurtured, born, etc. can skew that function so that it has some range of challenges.
       
      All Emotions are reset in every lifetime.
       
      But as one progresses through the Internal Monads, these Emotions are explored in a way that locks them into Projection or frees them into Reflection.
       
      These are not tied to the Internal Monads in a way that leaves an Internal Monad unfinished if the Emotion is not freed, but there do tend to be periods of the life where the various Emotions are emphasized in exploration.
       
      For example, Trust is explored and emphasized between the 1st and the 2nd Internal Monad.
       
      The 1st and 2nd Internal Monads can be successfully closed, even if Trust is not freed, but there is a rather high correlation to the level of trust vs distrust that one has in relation to whether one has completed those Internal Monads. In other words, there does TEND to be a much higher level of distrust among those who have not successfully closed their 2nd Internal Monad.
       
      DISGUST is explored and emphasized from the 2nd Internal Monad all the way through the 3rd Internal Monad.
       
      This is why you will find your toddlers to teens emphasizing this in ways that can be repellent and difficult.
       
      ANTICIPATION is explored during these, as well.
       
      Whereas SADNESS and JOY are explored and emphasized during the 4th Internal Monad.
       
      While ANGER and SURPRISE are explored and emphasized during the 5th Internal Monad.
       
      This is not to say that these Emotions do not exist as emphasis at any other time. We did not say that, nor did we imply that. But it is to say that those stages tend to be when those particular Emotions come to be truly resolved and freed, or locked into a more restricted state.
       
      Speak to a fragment who is successfully navigating the 5th Internal Monad and you will speak to someone who has all but lost the charge of Anger as a form of helplessness, and has freed it to become a form of motivation.
       
      Emotions as Polarities
       
      This may be a good segue into these Emotions as polarities.
       
      Think of the poles below as describing the Emotion as restricted or freed, and therefore more subject to Projection vs Reflection.
       
      TRUST as restricted might be FOOLISH/DISTRUST, and freed as CONFIDENCE/AWARENESS
      DISGUST as restricted might be CAUSTIC/LOATHSOME and freed as HUMOROUS/PREFERENCE
       
      Keep in mind that our polarities here are not necessarily emotions. These are merely adjectives to help understand the spectrum of that particular Emotion.
       
      SADNESS is restricted as PATHETIC/SELF-PITY and freed as GRIEF/HONESTY.
      ANGER is restricted as DEPRESSION/BLAME, and freed as MOTIVATION/PURPOSE.
      ANTICIPATION is restricted as AGITATION/DISDAIN, and freed as ENTHUSIASM/CONSIDERATION.
       
      [ViP1] Michael, just to confirm, you are giving negative poles first, then positive, as usual (eg, ENTHUSIASM: -ve, /CONSIDERATION: +ve?)
       
      [MEntity]
      What we are sharing with the two terms for each pole is the branching that the restriction or freeing can show up as. For instance, some restrictive Trust shows up much more like Foolishness or blind faith than as Distrust.
       
      But Foolishness and Distrust are fair ranges to include how the Freed end would show up.
       
      JOY is restricted as OBNOXIOUS/SELF-INDULGENT, and freed as INCLUSIVE/INVITING
      SURPRISE is restricted as RESISTANCE/DISREGARD, and freed as ADAPTIVE/PLAYFUL.
       
      To bring further correlation, it could be said that these Emotions are more inherently explored and emphasized in various Essence Roles, as well, though this is certainly in no strict sense of delineation.
       
      Scholars - Trust; Servers - Disgust; Artisans - Sadness; Warriors - Anger; Priests - Anticipation; Sages - Joy; Kings - Surprise.
       
      These inherent Emotions might be said to be a long-term spectrum for each Role to truly comprehend from its worst to its best.
       
      Furthermore, one COULD look at one's overleaves and "translate" his or her profile to show how the Personality might be emphasizing certain Emotions as exploration and emphasis.
       
      For example, if one has a greater emphasis down the Moving Axis, one might be exploring the wide range of Anger and how this is both debilitating and motivating.
       
      QUESTIONS
       
      We will open the floor for 2 or 3 final questions. We think we have covered a good amount on the subject of Emotions tonight, and these can be further explored in other exchanges with us.
       
      [Tyrant] Do each of the emotion types when blocked or repressed (or stuck in negative poles) have certain types of illness/ailments to them that manifest/what are they? as in, are there consistent patterns in types of ailments
       
      [MEntity]
      Yes, there can be. However, by the time most ailments are showing Physical symptoms, it is often a mix of two or more Emotions that have remained restricted. We can delineate these in another exchange.
       
      We would, first, want to share how illnesses/ailments can be broken down into 7, before correlating.
       
      If there are no more questions, we will conclude here for today.
       
      Good day to each of you
    • Kasia
      By Kasia
      OMW - May 19, 2012 - Accepting The Unacceptable
       
      Channel: Troy Tolley
       
      The Preliminary Set-up/Preparation
       
      [CocteauBoy] ONE. Write down three things that you find unacceptable. There may be more than that, but pick three very clear things that you find difficult to accept. Make sure these are things that you come across a lot, too. Not something abstract and horrific that is obviously, universally difficult to accept, like child sex rings (unless that is directly relevant to you), but something relevant to you.
       
      [CocteauBoy] Take a moment to do that. (Note: Use syntax of "I find it unacceptable that . . .")
       
      [CocteauBoy] "Unacceptable" here means "something or someone who prompts negative (as in, constricting) reactions in you in a way that you feel you have trouble recovering from."
       
      [CocteauBoy] That "something or someone" can be yourself, too.
       
      [CocteauBoy] TWO. Okay, so here's part two:
       
      [CocteauBoy] List one thing that is unacceptable to you in each of these categories: The World; Other People; Myself. However you want to interpret those. Sort your original list to see if it fills these, but if not, make sure you pick a new one for that category without one.
       
      [CocteauBoy] IF you did name names, you have to translate that into what it is that bothers you about that person.
       
      Note: This is ONE list of up to six items, but can be less due to overlapping items.
       
      Beginning of Channeled Michael
       
      [MEntity] Keeping your list in mind, we will share with you what we think might be helpful for "accepting the unacceptable," what it means to accept, what the path is to true acceptance, and whether it is always the valid choice to make.
       
      [MEntity] To begin any discussion on Acceptance, we must discuss the elements involved with Acceptance.
       
      [MEntity] Acceptance is a Higher Intellectual function. It is the "highest" functioning Center of the body, and is the gateway for Essence to move into the high planes over its evolution and return to Tao.
       
      [MEntity] However, True Agape, or True Acceptance, requires all elements, or Centers (or Chakras) to be functioning in the Positive Poles for that state to be achieved.
       
      [MEntity] This is nearly impossible while Human, or while in a Body. There is almost always a Center teetering toward the Negative Pole, even on the best of days, as there is a spectrum involved in the living of life, and there is no need for one to exist only in the Positive Poles. The Negative Poles are important and useful.
       
      [MEntity] This is why we encourage the aim for Agape, but we also know that it is rare to experience it. To truly Love is not what most know as Love, or Agape.
       
      [MEntity] However, the aim for Agape is a valid aim, even if rare in reaching it, because the aim for Agape means that every single layer of your life is then aiming higher, aiming for wholeness, aiming for health, aiming for prosperity, aiming for whatever has been deemed beneficial. That single aim affects everything.
       
      [MEntity] Aiming toward Agape ensures that every aspect of you, both the most "negative" and the most "positive" are aiming in the same direction, and including everything known and unknown in the life.
       
      [MEntity] Aiming for Agape is also the most effortless direction to aim, despite the rarity and difficulty of experiencing it at the highest levels. Agape is the gravity that will take you "home."
       
      [MEntity] It is our most natural state.
       
      [MEntity] But it is also the most buried and remote in our consciousness so that we must work through the layers to unfurl it, so to speak.
       
      [Maureen] Michael -- wouldn't Agape (Acceptance) be associated with the Higher Emotional Center rather than the Higher intellectual? Am I missing something?
       
      [MEntity] In our system, it is an Cardinal, Expressive Overleaf that resonates to the Higher Intellectual Center, or Truth. There is a reason you may find resonance with the Emotional element, which what we will speak to now.
       
      [MEntity] Love is the Highest Truth.
       
      [MEntity] Regardless of one's Goal and overleaves, Acceptance will still be a part of the life. It may not be emphasized as the challenge, but it will be a part of the life. In the same way that one will grow, even if Growth is not the Goal, so will one Accept, even if that is not the emphasis.
       
      [MEntity] So what we will do today is speak to the most pervasive element involved in the hurdle to Acceptance.
       
      [MEntity] For most, this would be the Emotional "element" or the Emotional Center.
       
      [MEntity] This is because one can know the truth of something or someone and still not Love, or not Accept, because of the Emotional Centering's pull into Sentimentality vs Perception.
       
      [MEntity] The Intellect can often grasp the truth of something while the Emotions cannot make sense of it. We think each of you know of this experience.
       
      [MEntity] This is because the Intellect, when functioning properly, simplfies, reduces, and synopsizes events, people, and self so that the bare bones or structures are all that are necessary for understanding and accepting. The rest is unnecessary.
       
      [MEntity] The Intellectual Centers, both Lower and Higher, can sort through everything to find that structure or core and this is known as Insight and Truth, when they are in the positive poles.
       
      [MEntity] This is not to say that the Intellect is immune to issues, but in the context of our workshop today regarding "accepting the unacceptable," the Intellect can often already be on board, while the Emotions are not in any mood to accept what the Intellect has accepted.
       
      [MEntity] This is because the Intellects use a linear language, or linear understanding, such as words, for its processing. The Emotions have no words, nothing linear, and its language is highly symbolic.
       
      [MEntity] This world of symbolism is highly effective when it is in the Positive Pole of Perception. This is the capacity for one to "know" something based upon perceiving, and bypassing all logic or intellect. It is holistic in its processing, so that all components or aspects of a situation, person, or self are comprehended in a moment.
       
      [MEntity] In the same way that a swatch of color can convey much more than a single English letter, so can Emotions convey whole concepts. The world of dreams is an Emotional world in that way. The Astral Plane, or Emotional Plane, is the same.
       
      [MEntity] Perception is the immediate comprehension of that symbolic language.
       
      [MEntity] It is also the allowance for shift in that symbolic language.
       
      [MEntity] All language is dynamic, and if not allowed for nuances and variations, it can become useless and ineffective.
       
      [MEntity] Sentimentality, then, is the attachment to symbols, or the attachment to symbols, or the attachment of meaning to symbols.
       
      [MEntity] As a simplistic example, the color RED is often immediately meaningful in one way or another, such as meaning STOP, or HALT, AGITATION, EXCITEMENT or WARNING, or it may mean PASSION, LOVE, ANGER, or it may mean REWARD, such as the red of harvested fruits, etc.
       
      [MEntity] For one to truly grasp the meaning of a symbol, the larger context must be considered.
       
      [MEntity] When walking through a red apple orchard, one does not see STOP, WARNING, AGITATION, as one might see on a road with many Stop Signs, and one does not see PASSION, INTIMACY, LOVE, as one might find while walking through a red rose garden, etc.
       
      [MEntity] You would see apples. Fruit. Harvesting, Reward.
       
      [MEntity] So while the color has powerful meaning in itself, the context clarifies that meaning.
       
      [MEntity] But when Sentimentality becomes involved, one begins to attach rigid meaning to the symbols of life.
       
      [MEntity] So your meaning of Red will mean RED in any circumstance.
       
      [MEntity] This is what happens when you have come across the unacceptable. You are seeing your Red, and its meaning, alone.
       
      [MEntity] You have turned the event, person, or aspect of yourself into a symbol that has no room for new meaning.
       
      [MEntity] Or for alternative meaning, at least.
       
      [MEntity] So the greatest pitfall in your efforts toward increasing Love in your life tends to be where you have locked down the symbolic meaning of events, people, or self in a way that you feel justified in keeping locked down.
       
      [MEntity] Before we move on, is everyone following this, and does this ring valid for you? Do you have any questions so far?
       
      [Janet] I think it rings true. I am trying to figure how it applies to some items on my list.
       
      [Maureen] Great so far Michael
       
      [Bobby] yes
       
      [MEntity] Your lists will come in handy as we continue.
       
      [GeraldineB] I had a "bingo!" on the difference between intellectual or linear and emotional symbolism being perception -- will need to chew on it
       
      [MEntity] We will continue now.
       
      [MEntity] For greater understanding of your Emotional navigation, imagine that it is your way of moving about in life with no eyes.
       
      [MEntity] Your Emotions, then, need to reach out, to touch, to feel. This is simplistic, but effective in making our point.
       
      [MEntity] When you feel something that "feels good," it is an immediate knowing that it feels good, and it is often embraced. When you feel something that does not feel good, it is an immediate knowing that it may be dangerous and you might push it away.
       
      [MEntity] Knowing that something feels good, or not, is not the truth, though.
       
      [MEntity] The fur of a Grizzly bear may feel amazing, but it will not keep your skull from being chewed. The burn on your hand from the hot skillet while you cooked has no bearing on the quality of the meal you will consume after.
       
      [MEntity] In short: YOUR FEELINGS ARE NEVER THE TRUTH.
       
      [MEntity] Or rather: never the whole truth.
       
      [MEntity] Your feelings are what you experience ABOUT the truth, but they are not the truth.
       
      [MEntity] Consider any important relationship in your life: one day, you may not feel close at all, and another day, you cannot imagine your life without that person. Your feelings change. They are not the same thing as the truth.
       
      [MEntity] Good days, bad days, good relationships, bad relationships, are determined by your feelings about those things, not by those things, themselves.
       
      [MEntity] This is why one person can find such agitation with something or someone, but another person finds no charge at all, because the symbols are different, and the feelings generated are different.
       
      [MEntity] The actual situation can be exactly the same, but the feelings vary wildly.
       
      [MEntity] This is also why "the truth" is often so slippery, because many are referring only to their feelings as a basis for what is true, and not the truth, itself.
       
      [MEntity] What we are sharing with you today is not just about your list, but about your list as it reflects you. Because our discussion with you today is about the ultimate aim: Self-Love. Everything that is experienced internally or externally in terms of being "unacceptable," are clues as to where and how you will want to aim your capacity for Self-Love.
       
      [MEntity] We realize it has come to be cliche, that "one can only love another if one has learned to love oneself," but we will clarify this as being true that one can only love or accept another to the extent that one can love or accept oneself. The extent to which one is incapable of loving oneself can often be revealed in those areas where one cannot accept.
       
      [MEntity] So we will state here that Self-Love is built upon one's capacity for accepting all of the fluctuations in the Emotions that make up how you know yourself at any given moment.
       
      [MEntity] In other words, it is vital that you allow room for ALL of you.
       
      DEFINITIONS
       
      [MEntity] We will go further here to expand on some terms:
       
      [MEntity] Perception might be defined as that part of you that can transcend the confines of Space, Time, and Logic to grasp the essential and nuanced nature of the self, another person, experience, or event.
       
      [MEntity] Sentimentality might be defined as that part of you that remains attached to the definitions already determined for yourself, another person, experience, or event, often determined only by your own past.
       
      [MEntity[ Perception is based in a state of NOW, if you will, while Sentimentality is rooted in comparisons that takes one outside of Now. For instance, Perception knows that if you are sad right now, it is okay because another "now" comes along, and you know you are not always sad. Sentimentality compares  sadness to happiness and seeks to escape Now by longing for the past when happy,  or the hope for a future when happy again.
       
      [MEntity] It is not in the comparisons that there can be trouble, but in use of comparison as the distraction away from the self, relationship, experience, or event.
       
      [MEntity] Perception allows you to avoid being trapped by symbolism. It knows that just because you are feeling sad, that it does not mean you are sad. You are experiencing Sadness. That is all. You also know that when you are Happy, it is not permanent; you will still have bad days. Perception "knows" this.
       
      [MEntity] You are incarnating for the point of Being, and that means you would naturally include a spectrum of Being, not one end or the other, if there is such a thing.
       
      [MEntity] To that end, whatever you feel, is a PART of who you are, right now. It is not the entirety of who you are. It is not the truth of who you are.
       
      [MEntity] And so it is that what you find unacceptable is only a PART of whatever is unacceptable. It is not the truth, nor is it the entirety of that which is unacceptable.
       
      [MEntity] There is so much more.
       
      [MEntity] If you wish to accept that which is unacceptable, then, you must start with yourself in that experience, and with your feelings in that experience, and know that you cannot accept the unacceptable until you allow yourself NOT to accept it.
       
      [MEntity] Accepting the unacceptable starts with accepting your lack of capacity to accept.
       
      [MEntity] This irony is a quick short-circuiting of the wheel that can perpetuate terrible feelings in unacceptability.
       
      [MEntity] When you accept your own lack of capacity to accept, your energy can shift toward expansion, rather than defense.
       
      [Maureen] Acceptance of your own Un-Acceptance leads to "eventual" Acceptance?
       
      [GeraldineB] Well, at least to your perception of your unacceptance
       
      [Maureen] yes
       
      [JanaK] because in that you are accepting yourself (not accepting)
       
      [GeraldineB falls off her chair howling with laughter]
       
      [JanaK] lol
       
      [Maureen] :)
       
      [MEntity] Yes, but naturally, not magically.
       
      [MEntity] This is because at the heart of this element where acceptability can get trapped is the capacity for compassion and empathy, and one must generate compassion and empathy for the self before extending that to another.
       
      [Bobby] This rings true to some degree like the mode of passion does. I see things that I don't like/accept but I don't have to take them personally.
       
      [MEntity] For example, many who suffer loss may focus on trying to accept that loss, but the key is not in aiming toward accepting the loss, but in aiming toward accepting your struggle to accept the loss. This may seem a fine line, but it is not.
       
      [MEntity] This goes back to the symbolism of the Emotional Center.
       
      [MEntity] The Emotional Center, when Sentimental, cannot differentiate very well between the self and the symbol, and it can cause great agitation, grief, and reaction if the symbols do not behave within the confines of how they have been defined.
       
      [MEntity] In other words, The World should behave in certain ways because that is how you determined your world should be. Other People should behave in certain ways because this is how you presume you will show up for others. You must, yourself, behave in certain ways that fulfill your symbolic identity.
       
      [Maureen] It can get really tricky
       
      [MEntity] But in the same way that you will have good days and bad days and ALL of those are yours, so will there be "good" people and "bad" people, but they are your people. There will be challenging people and harmonious people, because you are those things, as well. There is a spectrum, not a fence to cross, or to herd everyone over.
       
      [MEntity] What tends to perpetuate a lack of acceptability is the lack of effort to Be Present.
       
      [MEntity] This is because it is considered a threat to the self if the symbol is given any validity, especially if that symbol is behaving outside of what you have deemed acceptable.
       
      [MEntity] For instance, to Be Present to the fact that there will be people at war, even if you prefer Peace, means that you feel you would have to, essentially, accept war.
       
      [MEntity] But the key here is in accepting that there will be people at war, not in accepting war, itself.
       
      [MEntity] There will be people behaving badly around you, based on your standards, and they will exist with or without your accepting them.
       
      [MEntity] To Be Present, however, does not mean you have to remain in an uncomfortable or painful situation, but that you accept that there are people who are okay with what you are not, and that you have the right and the capacity to choose not to be a part of it.
       
      [Janet] Ok, now I think I'm getting it.
       
      [MEntity] To Be Present simply means that you bring your consciousness to the moment and can make a choice from there. Being Present is a first step toward Intimacy, and is a form of it, in itself.
       
      [MEntity] And Intimacy is the first step toward Essence Recognition, which is often the key to freeing one another from the symbols that bind you.
       
      [MEntity] Essence Recognition is the stripping away of all symbols, including the current body and Personality, to resonate with the Essence of another. It is the truth. The whole truth. It is Love.
       
      [MEntity] Keeping in mind that Love, and Essence are spectrums, so that Essence Recognition is inclusive of that spectrum. The unacceptable is included. And this, paradoxically, generates a kind of acceptance that can undo any reactionary cycles of defense that were previously in place against the unacceptable.
       
      [MEntity] For example:
       
      [MEntity] We have said this before, but one does not have to remain in a burning house to learn how to love it.
       
      [MEntity] Being Present means being able to make the choice to step outside of the danger or impact that can very well harm you. It is not a denial, avoidance, reaction, rejection, or a confusion between the house and the fire.
       
      [MEntity] The Fire is a PART of the experience of the House, but is not the entirety of the House.
       
      [MEntity] Making the choice not to burn with the house is not the same thing as not accepting the fire, or not accepting the house.
       
      [MEntity] You accept that you wish not to burn, but that the fire exists, and that the house is being transformed by it. This is acceptance.
       
      [MEntity] It is allowing room for all of these symbols to dance, to move, to change, to interact, and to BE. Being is not defined by predetermined meaning, but by context, creativity, and evolution.
       
      [MEntity] When you look at your list of unacceptable things, then, these are areas of your life looking for new meaning, new freedom, new perceptions.
       
      [MEntity] These are your blind spots.
       
      [MEntity] These are the things you have touched and determined are "bad" only because of how they felt in the dark, so to speak.
       
      [MEntity] Your feelings matter, but they are not the whole truth. Your life reflects you, but it reflects everything, not just you. It is the whole truth, not just the pretty parts.
       
      [MEntity] Bring our consciousness to the equation, make your choices in how to navigate these difficult challenges, but make room for more than the symbolic conclusions.
       
      [MEntity] To put the final empowerment into place for accepting the unacceptable, we will say that if you still deem something unacceptable, it will be helpful for you to know that you are right. You will always be right. No one can take that away from you. No matter how awful you have determined something to be, or how wonderful, you are right. Because it is your experience.
       
      [MEntity] And when you change your mind, or change your heart, you will be right again then, too.
       
      [MEntity] Giving yourself that freedom to be right can help you to remove the necessity for recruiting others to support your condemnation of a symbol, or to justify your not being accepting of something or something.
       
      [MEntity] If you are already right, then the only thing left to do is to navigate. But as soon as you bring in your presence, your consciousness, your navigation begins to include a greater context, and when a greater context is included, your ideas of "right" begin to expand and become more inclusive. It is not a sad day when you realize that "everyone is right."
       
      QUESTIONS and REMARKS
       
      [MEntity] Before we conclude with a clear synopsis, and offer suggestions for how to move the unacceptable into being acceptable, we will take your questions about what has been shared, so far.
       
      [MEntity] If that is a possibility, and your choice, of course. Acceptance is not dependent upon what is possible, or in what you should do, or not do, but in your capacity to allow for that which IS, even as it may be compared to what it should be, or was.
       
      [MEntity] Acceptance is not apathy.
       
      [Janet] That's what I was getting to. Thanks.
       
      [Bobby] I would add the question: why do we care so much what others think about things we either do or don't do?
       
      [MEntity] For example, we know our channel is highly passionate about Animal Rights, and this has made his list of "unacceptable" things in The World. Accepting that there are violations and suffering imposed upon the innocent is not the same thing as resigning from making a difference. The acceptance removes the reactionary, defensive element, and allows for conscious choices, which are far more effective, such as through education and exemplifying alternatives.
       
      [Janet] That's understandable. Mine was Fox News. And fear-based politics in general.
       
      [MEntity] Accepting that this "news" exists does not mean that it is your news, or that it is the truth about the world. It simply means that you allow room for it for those who want it and need it. They want to be as right as you do.
       
      [Janet] And I accept that. 🙂
       
      [MEntity] Accepting that it exists does not mean resigning from countering it, or making known a more fact-based resources.
       
      [MEntity] It simply means that it no longer triggers you, causes defense, or reactionary divisions that cannot allow for it to exist. This is a part of the world that does not reflect you in any obvious way, but we can say that its spectrum between gullibility and some feverish impulses to condemn may be familiar from within yourself.
       
      [Janet] Yes, I am finding that most things that set me off have some connection to things I do myself.
       
      [MEntity] This is what we meant by the Emotions feeling the surface and rejecting the content. On the surface, this prickly subject is obviously unappealing and has no bearing, but beneath that is the innocence that you feel is exploited, and that you wish to heal from your own past.
       
      [MEntity] This is often the core of most of what is unacceptable when it comes to the Older Soul: the healing of, and return to, Innocence.
       
      [Maureen] My husband doesn’t do the dishes – “when” I want him to. This seems so silly -- but it drives me crazy.
       
      [JanaK] you have just spoken for millions of people
       
      [MEntity] The Old Soul is the Infant Soul, exalted. The tantrums are more refined and justified, but that which "drives one crazy" is often used as permission for tantrums.
       
      [MEntity] The unacceptable is often built from the need To Be Right, and is a rejection of Innocence in some way, both of which need serious attention and healing in most cases.
       
      [MEntity] Your husband is Innocent. It is simply not as important to him as it is to you. You have blurred him into your symbolism for who you are, and it is not his job to symbolize you.
       
      [Maureen] I can see that - LOL
       
      [MEntity] Accepting that his priority for doing dishes is different from yours does not mean that you lose your own, but that you now have a choice: allow him to do so on his own, or do it when you want to do it. No one is out to hurt the other by being oneself.
       
      [Maureen] So funny -- he's told me as much Michael
       
      SUGGESTIONS
       
      [MEntity] Here are some suggestions for each of you to use in your days and weeks ahead when working with the unacceptable:
       
      [MEntity] Beyond bringing your own Presence into the equation, practice "realizing" the presence of others. In other words, return them to being people, to being real, to having their own pasts, their own ideals, their own validity; return them back to themselves. Remind yourself that this person cares about something, too. It may not be the same as you, but he or she cares. Remember that this person tries to love someone, too, and that he or she struggles with letting himself or herself be loved.
       
      [MEntity] Remember that you feel the way you do because you care, too. And because you try to love, and to be loved, as well. You matter. They matter. So return them from the land of symbolism and give them back to themselves, as you must do for parts of yourself, too.
       
      [MEntity] This helps return your Perception back to a bigger picture, not just the tunnel-vision of reaction and condemnation.
       
      [MEntity] Another suggestion is to extend this "realizing" into what we call "practicing vividry."
       
      [MEntity] This is simply the enhancement of the moment of experience into a moment of awe.
       
      [MEntity] It will not matter what you are doing, or where, but it is the sudden realization that you are present, that your skin exists, that there is light on your face, that there are textures touching you, and that there is a temperature, and that you have a face that has a tongue and mouth and eyes, and that your hands and arms exist, etc. It is the filling up of everything within "reach" with your conscious awareness.
       
      [MEntity] Bringing you and your environment to life through vividry is a powerful way of comprehending just how sleepy you may get in your movement through your days.
       
      [MEntity] One need not be consciously and constantly aware like this at all times, of course, but for you to be able to call upon that at any moment is vital for moving your into Self-Love and acceptance of others.
       
      [MEntity] This is because one can have a very difficult time accepting the unacceptable if one is asleep, as it is much like being in a dream where one feels that the symbols happen without rhyme or reason, and that there is not much one can do but to report on them. Waking up changes this.
       
      [MEntity] And finally, if you were to do this "waking up" before going to bed at night, it can carry over into your days in even more natural ways. Practicing Vividry just before retiring into sleep can help remind you that your day was a specrum that supported everything that is You.
       
      [MEntity] That would include the unacceptable.
       
      [MEntity] Extend this vividry to beyond the moment so that there is a realization that your bed, your linens, your home, and everything in it came from "somewhere," and that a lot of effort and creativity and generosity and even pain and suffering went into all that is a part of your days that you take for granted.
       
      [MEntity] You will not know what went into everything that got to your home tonight, but it is there now, and it is a part of your days, your nights, your comforts, your challenges, etc.
       
      [MEntity] Accepting that these things are in your home does not mean that you cannot deal with them effectively, help transform them, or even remove them.
       
      [MEntity] And that is how the unacceptable is in your life, as well. It is a part of the package of what your life is, and accepting that does not mean that you cannot deal with them effectively, help transform them, or remove them.
       
      [MEntity] We do have much more to say on this topic, of course, but we think this is a start in helping each of you to, at least, soften the effects of the unacceptable, and then to begin the efforts of accepting from there, all the while aiming for Agape and Self-Love.
       
      [MEntity] We must conclude here for now.
       
      [MEntity] Good day to each of you.
    • Janet
      By Janet
      December 3, 2011
      OMW: Year Review
       
      MEntity:
      Hello to each of you. We are here now.
       
      The workshop requested today is that of consciously reviewing your year of experiences so that you may carry with you into the next year that which is of benefit to you, and release that which is not. This process of Review happens on a Personality Level almost-yearly, but almost always subconsciously, and not with a great deal of comprehension.
       
      There are various levels of Reviews that happen, as signified by some of the planetary Returns in your Astrology, such as the Jupiter and Saturn Returns, and also by any collective Instinctive Centered Year, or major events and choices in your life. In short, Reviews are happening "all the time" in some form, but it usually takes a major event to truly bring comprehension of that Review.
       
      Unless you use your power of Choice to bring a Review into comprehension at will.
       
      The Review process that we will discuss today is one based upon your Choice, your willingness. It is a conscious Review.
       
      Time periods or recurring events (such as holidays) are excellent markers for taking a moment to Review, and the end/beginning of a year is usually quite significant to most.
       
      We will define "Review" here as: the process of awareness, integration and comprehension of experiences. Awareness is the Intellectual recall of experience. Integration is the extraction of meaning from experience, or the Emotional/Inspirational element. And Comprehension is the building from those experiences, or the Action element.
       
      What most lifetimes/Personalities tend to do is to leave a trail of experiences that are then gathered up only after the death of the body. The cliche that "people never really change" is based upon this, because most fragments while incarnated in a Personality really do not change in any discernible way, because there is a great lack of Awareness, Integration, and Comprehension of Experiences.
       
      Most lifetimes tend to be a series of consumed experiences that do not get fully processed. To put this into perspective: imagine that a lifetime equals 100% Experience. Most fragments, while in a body, are Aware of only 10% at most, Integrate only half of that 10% at most, and Comprehend even less. In other words: 90% of what is gained from a lifetime of Experiences comes AFTER the lifetime ends. A lifetime of experiences over a 70 to 100 year span bringing only 3% Comprehension leaves the Personality at the end of the lifetime feeling quite bewildered with "where the time went," what he or she did with his or her life, etc.
       
      If Review were a regular part of the lifetime in Comprehensive ways, or if this were considered a valid and vital part of educational systems, lifetimes would look very different. That being said, it is also a glorious luxury that a Personality is NOT required to Review. YOU get to LIVE. That is all you have to do, if that.
       
      It is not your responsibility, nor is it particularly appealing to go into Review on any regular basis during a lifetime. The opportunities are there, and sometimes they are vital (signified most of the time by near-death experiences prompting Review), but they are not required. However, as the Soul Ages, and the Personalities grow more and more conscious during the living of a lifetime, manifesting Essence more and more, the process of Review becomes quite an interesting prospect. YOU want to Review because YOU equals Essence. "You" always equates Essence, but not always consciously, which is the differentiation between "manifesting Essence" and not.
       
      Today, then, we will share with you ways that you can Review using tools that are useful as Personality, as well as methods that are used by Essence, usually reserved for after death.
       
      Before we go into those, we will first suggest the methods for settling into your Review. You do not have to do these during this workshop.
       
      Draw from memory at least 3 significant events of your past year. There are always 3 or more, whether you realize that or not. There a multitude, in fact, but in terms of memory, there should always be available at least 3 with which will come to AWARENESS. Divide your previous year into four sections of three months each (i.e., Jan-Mar, Apr-Jun, Jul-Sep, Oct-Dec). To the best of your memory, determine in which section the events occurred.  
      [Martha] event meaning some particular occurrence, or could it be some longer term theme/project etc?
       
      MEntity:
      Martha, "significant" is the key here. It could have been a moment, it could have been a project, it could have been a word, it could have been a day, etc. The degree of significance to you is what is important. By "significant," we mean that it meant something to you that stayed with you in some way. If it was a long-term event of significance, it can be noted as to where it began, but it can also be noted as to which sections it spanned. By just doing these steps, you have worked through the Awareness and Integration elements of Review. The next steps, then, will have more immediate significance and resonance, if this process works for you, as your examples can be worked with.
       
      A continuation on the Integration element:
       
      The four sections of the year are now labeled by the Overleaf emphasis that the season tends to bring with it. This may be different for those in the different Hemispheres, and whether the climate is rather steady, or not, there will still be these "seasons." For simplistic purposes, we will describe the climates where most of our students are, and this can then be translated appropriately.
       
      Jan-Mar=Winter=GOAL Apr-Jun=Spring=MODE Jul-Sep=Summer=ATTITUDE Oct-Dec=Fall=CHIEF FEATURES  
      Obviously, these are not exact to the shifts in Seasons, and in fact there are more "seasons" when technically speaking, but this is a symbolic mapping that need not be confused with more technical differences.
       
      [Maureen] Is it your personal Overleaves in effect or is this only the "effect" of the yearly, transiting Overleaves?
       
      MEntity:
      In extreme climates that transcend the more "traditional" shifts in insolation for the year, such as closer to the poles and equator, we would still suggest dividing up your year for Review as suggested, as it is symbolic, as we said, but there are some differences in your process that we will address. There a multitude of ways to define "seasons" on the planet, so we will use this mapping that helps to cover the point of Review, rather than as a way to describing shifting temperatures and cycles of the planet, itself.  In your identifying where in your "seasons" your significant events occurred, you have gained insight into which of your Overleaves was being activated as a primary process for that event.
       
      If your significant event occurred in Jan-Mar, it is directly and most-significantly linked to your GOAL. If your significant event occurred in Apr-Jun, it is directly, and most-significantly, linked to your MODE. And so on.
       
      To expand upon these:
       
      GOAL = the state or quality that every action in your life is aimed at comprehending. MODE = the method through which you access inspiration, and use that for developing Relationships. ATTITUDE = the means through which you communicate/express yourself to your world, and interpret the communication and expressions from your world. CHIEF FEATURES = the habits used to protect yourself from presumed dangers and threats to any of the above.  
      All of this falls into the elaboration for Step Three, by the way.
       
      [Maureen] So if you went into "action" during the Oct-Dec time period -- would that be in "reaction" to your Chief Features?
       
      MEntity: We do not understand your question.
       
      [Maureen] If this time period is related to the CFs -- and you "act" or create at that time -- is this related to the Cfs?
       
      MEntity:
      No. When we get into examples, this may be clearer.
       
      Before we continue, we will take one of you as an example for how to utilize step three, and help you walk through the assessment. Who will volunteer? Just one, for now.
       
      [Maureen] me?
       
      MEntity: Yes, Maureen.
       
      [Maureen] do you want me to give you what I have?
       
      MEntity: Share one significant event and in what time frame it occurred.
       
      [Maureen] OBSERVATION, PASSION/RESERVE, REALIST, CFs (STUBBORNNESS, SELF-DEP, IMPATIENCE): People “insisting/wanting” to pay me Apr-Jun($), Jul-Aug(barter), Oct-Dec($).
       
      MEntity: So that we are clear: these are the same events of significance, occurring at different points in the year?
       
      [Maureen] yes - similar events / so the "same' – yes
       
      MEntity:
      This would then count as ONE significant event, even if it is cycles or repetition, and we would go with where it began: in the realm of your MODE. However, it will still "mean something" that it occurred in these other seasons, and we can address that. The arcing of significance, though, would be in that this is a Significant Event regarding Inspiration, your Mode, and Relationships.
       
      Our walkthrough with you will lead to step FOUR) Comprehension. What will lead to Comprehension, is the full Integration from step THREE, which is making sense of what this means to you.
       
      In this case, having the symbolic context of your Mode, Inspiration, and Relationships, it seems almost "too obvious" that this Significant Event is a process that is inviting you to relate in ways that bring the circuit of Inspiration to a wholeness in your Relationships regarding your services. It was an opportunity for you to Comprehend that your services have value that, while difficult to quantify, CAN be quantified in a way that helps that Comprehension. Therein lies the Comprehension, or Step Four: you are PART of the equation of value, not the entire equation, in a Relationship, in any terms of exchange.
       
      In terms of your own Mode of Observation, then, it would mean that this Significant Event should be glaring, obvious, and clear, and if it is rejected, you are not seeing clearly, or refusing to see clearly what is so obvious.
       
      [Maureen] I can see it – lol
       
      MEntity:
      Yes, you can.
       
      And by using this Review, you can then build from the Experience in a way that changes you, rather than hints at possibilities that you refuse, deny, or resist.
       
      Does all of this make sense to you?
       
      [Maureen] yes it does
       
      MEntity: Another example from another student is requested. Yes, Janet. Share as Maureen shared.
       
      [Janet] I participated in a dance competition in June, first in many years. I did not do well for a variety of reasons. But it haunts me now. I'm in Power mode. Might be my self-dep that alters my impressions of it now.
       
      MEntity: What part of June? The closer to July, the more one would want to consider the next" season" as well; in this case, the Attitude.
       
      [Janet] Mid-June. But I am Stoic.
       
      MEntity: NOTE: Any Significant Event that resides on the cusp of a "season" would do well to consider the context next to it.
       
      [Janet] And goal of Dominance to complete the sequence...
       
      MEntity:
      A fair span of consideration for a cusp is 3 days before the next context.
       
      In assessing your Significant Event, Janet, one would consider the event in context: in your case, in the context of Power Mode. Keeping in mind that "MODE = the method through which you access inspiration, and use that for developing Relationships," and that Power Mode is about relating through your degree of PRESENCE, we can begin to extract the significance of this event, or Integrate it.
       
      In this case, you went on full display, not only for others to see, but for you to see, just how PRESENT you are with yourself. Were you fully merged into the movements of your dance? Were you present with yourself *as a dancer*, or were you distracted by your past performances as a dancer, or your future assessment as a dancer?
       
      [Janet] Oh bingo
       
      MEntity: This is significant to you because it let you see where you are in your use of that Mode, in your use of Power, in your willingness to Be Present (in relationships).
       
      [Janet] So if you do not or cannot make full use of your mode, you may miss opportunities? Is this a way of evaluating how to approach future events?
       
      MEntity:
      And therein lies your Comprehension, or Step Four. That you fall into Oppression of yourself to protect yourself from the presence and power of others, rather than stand in your own Authority and confidence with whatever, however, and wherever you are with yourself NOW.
       
      [Janet] Very valid. And in retrospect all my previous good showings at comps made full use of Power mode. I see it now.
       
      MEntity:
      You will always make "full use" of your Mode. It is your Mode. It is functioning in one way or another, be it in Authority, or in Oppression.
       
      The key here is in your Conscious Review: continue to condemn your performance and lose all useful meaning (Integration) from it, or retroactively allow THAT PERFORMANCE to be OKAY. Take back your Authority, and bring yourself back to you (Presence), by understanding that it was its own performance, and not a defining moment the wipe out all other performances, past, future, or present.
       
      [Janet] A most helpful Review. Thank you.
       
      [Maureen] So is that how the CFs come into "play" -- at the end of the year? As we look back we "assign" a "negative" or "positive" reaction/response to our events?
       
      MEntity:
      Maureen, that is valid. The "season" of Chief Features tends to be when most do any kind of Review, but when done without Consciousness, there tends to come only a review of what went wrong, what needs to change, what you will do differently, etc. And then the cycle perpetuates in the new year.
       
      [Maureen] and I just saw Janet "shift" -- so if you allow yourself to shift from a "negative" to a "positive" view you can pull your OLs into the positive?
       
      MEntity: Yes, Maureen; it is an immediate effect.
       
      [Janet] But is it also valid to use what you know about the seasonal impact of the overleaves to prepare yourself for a coming event?
       
      MEntity: Janet, because this mapping is based in Review, it tends to be the case that it is only useful in retrospect, rather than in anticipation.
       
      [Janet] Ah. But I imagine some awareness won't hurt in the future.
       
      MEntity: However, knowing the "seasonal emphasis" can help you to gauge your anticipated events in a way that then allows for more immediate Integration from within the Experience.
       
      [Janet] I can see that.
       
      MEntity:
      For instance, had you known about this before your dance, you could have brought a consciousness to your dance that embraced your Power and presence. But that is also a realization that one can make at any time of the year.
       
      When your Reviews are only based upon what went wrong, what needs to change, etc, then it tends to be the case that your entire next year begins with Actions/Goals that stem from disappointment, failings, etc, and the stories repeat in many ways then. When you are RELATING, consider your Mode. When you are fulfilling intentions, consider your GOAL. When you are socializing and communicating, consider your ATTITUDE. and so on.
       
      What we have shared so far is a symbolic mapping of your Year in Review that helps you to bring Awareness, Integration, and Comprehension. Keep in mind that nearly all of what you have labeled as "significant events" comes with great benefit, if Comprehended. When there is lack of Comprehension, even the best of events can be dismissed. When Comprehension is involved, everything is amazing and beneficial.
       
      However, it is not lost on Essence that many events of significance simply cannot be Comprehended while within the confines of time and space, and in those instances, the freedom you give yourself NOT to comprehend (until you can) is a Comprehension in itself.
       
      To clarify our mapping of the year, the reason Chief Features are assigned to Fall, is that it is an Assimilative time of year, and therefore brings up the Instinctive Center, which often prompts fears. Assimilation is a process of filtering and organizing experiences, and this often means letting things die for the sake of rebirth, if you will.
       
      What we have shared with you is a process that is a crude parallel to how Essence Reviews an entire lifetime, except in far more detail and analysis, but your participation while from "inside" the life adds a level of profundity to afterlife Review that can only come from your participation now.
       
      Imagine the difference between walking a path through a grove of fruitful trees carrying a basket for collecting those ripened fruits, and taking time to eat many of them along the way, versus walking through that same path without a basket, and only carrying a few fruits in hand, able to maybe eat part of one along the way. The basket and the eating are your Awareness and Integration, which naturally lead to Comprehension, or a full basket at the end of the life. To continue with our metaphor, it would be similar to handing over whatever fruits are in your arms at the time, but leaving many uncollected. Some fragments "hand over their fruits" as their arms fill, and some just keep piling on top until older fruits drop off, and only recent fruits are then collected, or the other way around.
       
      [GeraldineB] What about the ongoing Reviews with Essence, i.e., the 7-year Review?
       
      MEntity: Geraldine, in most instances of Review, it is merely an uploading process, if you will, for Essence to sort through. It is not a Comprehension on the level of Personality.
       
      [Oscar] Do Scholars collect more due to their more frequent uploading?
       
      MEntity:
      Oscar, in keeping with the metaphor, Scholars come with their very own truck, but again, their collecting and uploading does not equate Comprehension.
       
      To share with you more creative, Personality-based Review, one can also use such things as intentional synchronicities, or oracles. Creating a layout for a Tarot Card reading of your year can be helpful. Looking at significant Transits in your Astrology can be helpful. Casting Runes, etc.
       
      [Janet] I'm sorry but what is an "intentional synchronicity"?
       
      MEntity: Janet, we used that phrase to describe the intent for a system of randomness to act as a representation or reflection of specifics.
       
      [Janet] Oh, like tarot cards or the like.
       
      MEntity: That is an example, yes.
       
      [hanna3175] iching!
       
      MEntity:
      Correct.
       
      Intentional Synchronicity. The intentional aspect is important, as it defines the circuit used for symbolic communication. Anything can be used when using Intentional Synchronicity. This is how dreams and omens can become significant to some. It is a valid means of establishing a language between Personality and Essence, or "the universe," etc.
       
      [Maureen] The question posed "creates" the answer -- that is why the "question" is so important -- even with you Michael!
       
      MEntity:
      Even the arrangements of toppings on a pizza can be "read," if there is a system defined/intended. Tea Leaf reading is no different from reading toppings on a pizza, for that matter. This process is a use of the Higher Moving Center, or the capacity for extracting Beauty. The ability to recognize patterns from within randomness. It is a skill that requires honesty, however, because it can also lead to "seeing" anything in everything.
       
      In conclusion today:  By using the map we have described, and the steps for moving through Awareness, Integration, and Comprehension, you can begin your 2012 on a higher cycle, if you choose, rather than as a repeated cycle, or as an extended cycle. By "higher cycle" we simply mean that it continues to build upon what has come, rather than circles back to it.
       
      We will work with Troy in sharing in our next Open Monthly Workshop then just how one might start a higher cycle after a Comprehensive Review.
       
      NOTE: in your process of Review, we suggest taking your time, playing with various ways of understanding your significant event in terms of how it benefited you, and not simply making note of them and then discarding the process if it is frustrating. It can be daunting, we know, but it is an exercise of a "muscle" that is latent and fairly ignored, so it will not always seem easy or fun, at first. If you find you are not making any sense of your Review, or not getting to your point of Comprehension, as revealed by a sense of relief, "a-ha" moment, or enthusiasm, then set it down and come back to it later.
       
      Your life will still be there.
    • Johanne
      By Johanne
      Les Attributs dans la vie quotidienne

      Traduction d’une causerie avec l’Entité Michael (EM) le 13 janvier 2008

      Canal : Troy Tolley

      Source anglaise : https://our.truthloveenergy.com/topic/37-michael-speaks-january-2008/?tab=comments#comment-96. Le texte ci-bas a aussi été adapté du livre anglais « The Book of the Books », 2018.
      Entité Michael (EM)
      Bonjour à tous. Nous sommes ici. Nous avons été invités à développer les Attributs d'une manière qui pourrait ajouter davantage de "dimension" et de contexte pour leur utilisation pratique, et nous allons le faire. Ce que nous avons généralement partagé à propos des Attributs, « n’est que le début ». 

      Nous allons partager avec vous aujourd’hui, comment ces Attributs se manifestent dans les contextes de base de votre existence quotidienne; comment être plus conscient des Attributs d’une manière qui peut être observée et comment ils peuvent ensuite être utilisés de manière plus consciente dans d'autres contextes où ils peuvent ne pas être aussi évidents.
      Nous allons commencer par le But.

      Si vous avez toujours voulu observer le plus clairement votre But en action, cet Attribut est le plus évident dans le contexte de votre VIE EXTÉRIEURE. Nous entendons par là que cet Attribut est ce que vous utilisez comme motivation derrière tous vos choix qui sont en relation avec le monde extérieur, la vie en général. 
      Dans ce contexte, on pourrait dire que le But est l’Attribut qui décrit ce que vous recherchez dans le monde en termes d'expérience; ou plus précisément, le But décrit ce que vous souhaitez rapporter de vos expériences. Il ne décrit pas ultimement le COMMENT ou le SI, mais il décrit le QUOI.

      Par exemple, si votre But est l'Acceptation, ceci signifie que toute expérience tirée de votre journée peut être reliée à ce But particulier et que c’est une bonne chose que de chercher à voir comment cela décrit ce QUE vous avez recherché dans vos choix au cours de la journée à partir du contexte général de votre vie externe.

      On pourrait dire aussi que le But résonne avec le Centre Actif et l’Axe de l’Action. 
      Nous partageons avec vous cette résonnance avec l’Axe pour jeter une base pour l’information que nous partagerons dans le futur, car nous allons éventuellement passer à travers chaque But (et Mode, Attitude, etc.) et de ce que chaque Attribut signifie à la lumière de cette information. Nous partageons également ces résonnances, non seulement pour référence future, mais pour votre propre exploration plus avant, à mesure que vous établissez des liens et des références croisées à travers ces résonances.

      Nous inclurons également ici que le But peut être considéré comme votre méthode d’entrée dans le monde en termes de PROJETS. Dans ce cas-ci, "projets" est utilisé comme un terme clé pour vous aider à simplifier le point général de votre motivation initiale à accéder au monde de l’expérience.

      Ensuite, nous parlerons du Mode.

      On pourrait dire que le Mode est votre entrée dans votre monde des RELATIONS. Si vous voulez comprendre pleinement comment se manifeste votre Mode, vous pouvez plus facilement le voir dans le contexte des Relations, ou plus précisément dans le monde de l'INTIMITÉ. 
      Dans ce cas-ci, nous définissons "l'Intimité" comme étant votre méthode de résonance à quelque chose au-delà de vous. C'est pourquoi le Mode est souvent décrit comme "comment vous vous y prenez pour atteindre le But", car votre relation à l'expérience (votre But) est elle-même une relation, qui est donc décrite par votre Mode.

      Les Modes résonnent avec le Centre Émotionnel et l'Axe de l'Inspiration.

      Le Mode en résonance avec le Centre Émotionnel implique précisément que les Modes concernent les PERCEPTIONS, ce qui affecte grandement votre interprétation de l’AUTRE dans les relations; les Perceptions sont le pôle positif du Centre Émotionnel. En outre, la Résonance des Modes avec l’Axe de l’Inspiration contribuera à éclairer la dynamique requise pour l’NSPIRATION et son fonctionnement pour chacun d’entre vous.

      Il convient également de noter que nous ne limitons pas la résonance de ces Attributs aux Centres Inférieurs, mais incluons également les Centres Supérieurs, bien que nous souhaitons nous concentrer sur les Centres Inférieurs mais uniquement pour des raisons de tangibilité et de commodité, et non parce les Centres Supérieurs sont exclus. 
      En d'autres termes, on pourrait dire que les MODES sont comment on pourrait éventuellement manifester l'AMOUR dans sa vie, ou le Centre Émotionnel Supérieur. De plus, le BUT pourrait être comment on pourrait dire que l’on manifeste la BEAUTÉ, ou l’Énergie, dans sa vie, car il résonne avec le Centre Actif Supérieur. 
      Par "Beauté" et "Énergie", dans ce cas-ci, nous voulons dire que l'on apporte un sens de configuration à ses expériences et que l’on commence à voir cette configuration comme parfaite et belle, et non pas aléatoire et chaotique, ou imposée.

      Ensuite, nous parlerons de l'Attitude.

      On peut dire que l’Attitude est votre entrée dans le monde de la COMMUNICATION. Elle se manifeste généralement le plus dans le domaine de la SOCIALISATION, ou dans tout domaine d'échange d'informations. 
      L’Attribut décrit comment on communique avec les autres par le biais de la philosophie personnelle principale choisie pour cette vie. Il décrit également comment on ÉCOUTE, ou entend, en termes de Communication, car il est assez difficile de communiquer en dehors de votre position philosophique personnelle. 
      En d’autres termes, si l’on est Idéaliste, on pourra dire que la Communication aura tendance à pencher vers la philosophie de l’AMÉLIORATION. Cela ne signifie pas que l'on ne peut pas échanger en dehors de cette philosophie, mais que lorsqu'un Idéaliste est pleinement présent, la communication est orientée vers cette philosophie, dirigeant toute l’expression et la réception à travers l’Idéal

      Les Attitudes résonnent aussi avec le Centre Intellectuel et l’Axe de l’Expression. Par association, cela signifie également que les Attitudes décrivent comment on communique sa VÉRITÉ, car les Attitudes résonnent également avec le Centre Intellectuel Supérieur. 
      On pourrait alors dire que toutes les communications passent par cet Attribut pour aider à évoluer, questionner, développer, transformer, mettre à jour, etc. les concepts de Vérité pour cette vie. À cet égard, on peut voir que cet Attribut peut tendre à être le plus évident dans les situations sociales, car ce contexte permet souvent de mettre en lumière la manière dont on exprime sa vérité, la cache ou la protège.

      Ensuite, nous parlerons du Rôle.

      On pourrait dire que le Rôle résonne avec votre VIE INTERNE. C'est qui vous êtes "à la fin de la journée", quand vous êtes seul et "faites un rattrapage avec vous-même".  
      C'est la partie de vous qui est utilisée pour donner un sens à "tout cela". C'est la partie de vous qui digère et emmagasine les expériences, les communications, les intimités du jour, de l'année et de la vie.

      Rappelez-vous qu'Essence et ROLE sont deux termes très distincts, bien qu'ils soient facilement utilisés de façon interchangeable. C’est la raison pour laquelle nous parlons en termes de « Rôle en Essence », car le Rôle est un Attribut que l’Essence a choisi pour ce cycle de vies.

      Le Rôle résonne avec le Centre Instinctif et l’Axe de l’Assimilation car il s’agit de la partie qui se répète d’une vie à l’autre.

      On pourrait dire que c'est l'Attribut qui demande à la fin de la journée: "Qu'est-ce que tout cela signifie pour moi? Comment tout cela contribue-t-il à mon évolution? Pourquoi ai-je fait les choix que j'ai faits?"

      C’est également le tout premier niveau à partir duquel TOUS vos choix sont faits, qu’il s’agisse de Projets, d’Intimité ou de Communication.
      Le Rôle, c’est d’où vous tirez votre conscience, alors qu’il se développe à partir de l'Expérience, des Relations et de la Socialisation. 
      Et ainsi on pourrait dire que c'est aussi la partie de vous que vous apportez À votre journée; la version de vous constamment remise à jour pour le nouvel ensemble d'expériences qui seront explorées le lendemain, le mois prochain, l'année prochaine et même dans la prochaine vie.
      En résumé

      De différentier ces contextes et comment se présente chaque Attribut dans ces contextes peut aider à apporter une conscience qu’on n’aurait peut-être pas eue autrement, en termes de saisir comment nos Attributs fonctionnent au quotidien. 
      En explorant ces contextes, vous pouvez également examiner là où vous pourriez avoir des « problèmes » ou comment vous pourriez résoudre les « problèmes » reliés à ce contexte de vie particulier. 
      Par exemple, si quelqu’un manque d’Intimité dans sa vie, il pourrait se tourner vers le Mode pour avoir des idées comment résoudre les problèmes reliés à l’Intimité et les relations. 
      Si quelqu’un ressent une absence de participation dans le monde extérieur, si l’on peut dire, et qu’il ressent un manque d’énergie ou une augmentation de sa frustration face à la vie, de se tourner vers le But peut l’aider à apporter un éclairage sur comment retrouver une participation consciente. 
      Si quelqu’un se sent rejeté ou inconfortable dans des situations sociales, il pourrait lui être utile d’explorer les vérités fondamentales, l’Attitude, comme point de départ pour trouver ce qui motive cette division. 
      Nous pourrions poursuivre avec de nombreux exemples différents, mais nous pensons que ce sera un bon point de départ à vous offrir compte tenu du temps disponible par l’intermédiaire de ce canal aujourd’hui.
      Nous avons davantage à dire sur la manière dont comment le Type Physique, le Centre de gravité et l’Âge de l’Âme peuvent aussi venir influencer mais ce sera pour des discussions dans de futures sessions.

      [AnnH]: J'ai du mal à comprendre comment fonctionne l'Axe de l'Assimilation dans ce contexte. Par exemple, mon Mode est l'Observation: comment fonctionne la +Clarté versus la -Surveillance dans le contexte des relations?

      EM : On pourrait dire qu'en termes de relations, quand vous fonctionnez à partir du Pôle Négatif, vous êtes séparés de l'autre, observant à distance, éloigné, sans jamais être vraiment intime, mais "surveillant". 
      Dans le Pôle Positif, on pourrait dire que vous êtes capable de laisser tomber la division entre vous et l’autre et de véritablement saisir sa présence en relation avec vous. 
      En d'autres termes, vous permettez à l’AUTRE d'être vu et inclus dans votre vision, votre +Clarté, plutôt que par le biais d’une fenêtre métaphorique en verre. 
      Lorsque vous êtes dans la -Surveillance, oui, vous pouvez sourire, hocher la tête et même faire des "yeux écarquillés" à travers cette fenêtre, mais l’Autre n’arrive jamais à être vu clairement, à être présent pour vous, à être à la portée de la véritable intimité, parce que vous "gardez l’oeil sur lui, ou elle"; ce qui, ironiquement, ne permet pas autant de +Clarté qu'on pourrait le penser, parce qu’en ne permettant pas à l’Autre d'être pleinement présent, vous ne disposez pas de toutes les informations disponibles. 
      Dans un but de simplification, on pourrait dire que le Mode de l’Observation est soit à distance, soit de près (respectivement les Pôles Négatif et Positif). 
      Nous vous rappelons que tout le spectre décrit par un Attribut est à votre disposition et que, même si les Pôles Positifs « semblent » être ce qu’il y a de mieux la plupart du temps et qu’ils permettent la manifestation de l’Essence, il est également valide d’utiliser les Pôles Négatifs car ils font partie de votre expérience de la vie comme Personnalité. 
      [Kathryn41]: Comment le Moulage s’intègre-t-il à ce scénario? Reflète-t-il davantage la Nature de l'Essence, à part du Rôle et des autres Attributs? Compte-t-il même comme un Attribut, ou s'agit-il davantage de la nature innée de l'essence?

      EM : Nous ne considérons pas le "Moulage" comme un Attribut, mais vous avez raison de le voir comme reflétant davantage la nature innée à l'Essence. 

      Le Moulage décrit une relation mathématique de votre Essence par rapport à d'autres Essences, ce qui affecte grandement l'Essence (et par extension le Rôle), mais pas dans les contextes que nous avons partagés aujourd'hui. 
      En guise de réponse rapide, nous dirons ici que le Moulage est un autre contexte qui aide à comprendre comment on établit des liens, mais au Niveau de l'Essence, pas de celui de la Personnalité. 
      Nous ajouterons que le "Moulage" n'inclut pas seulement la position de base dans la Cadence, mais le numéro de la Cadence elle-même et le numéro de l’Entité. Ces trois chiffres peuvent être discutés en termes de comment on peut prendre conscience de la façon dont on existe en tant qu'Essence en relation avec d'autres Essences.

      Bonne journée à chacun de vous. Au revoir.

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